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3 Tricks For Getting Things Done In Less Time

We always seek and love to find ways to get
things done in less time; to make more use of
our time and invest it in the right areas. Time
is very important and is something we cannot
underestimate; time is money. Sometimes we
do not give the right evaluation to time. Let us
think of an example where life is a really
critical factor. Imagine a doctor that is
performing a surgery or a detailed procedure.
Do you think time is important in this situation
or could the surgeon take his time? Of course
time is extremely important to time everything,
because missing out on something or taking a
longer time on something can be the difference
between life and death.

Here are 3 tricks for getting things done in less
time:

1. Wake Up Earlier

Do you get to sleep and wake up early? It
could be one of the things you add on your list
for more productivity. Time is a tricky aspect of
life; if not used correctly, it can lead to the
loss of many things and the incompletion of
many tasks.
However, if you have the habit of sleeping
early; getting enough rest and then waking up
early your mornings could be more effective.
Usually our brains are more active and focused
in the morning and so waking up early can help
you finish important tasks in less time and get
those out of the way. Doing so can help leave
the less important things for later in the day
when you might not be at your peak mental
strength.

2. Brainstorm

Are you a person that when working on a new
topic and project, brainstorms and tries to lay
out on the table as many ideas as possible?
Well, if you do not already, try it out.
Brainstorming is the act of saying whatever
comes to your mind and writing those ideas
down. There are people that lay a main idea in
the center and then draw lines from there and
link them to other sub-ideas.
Do not limit yourself, just go ahead and write
whatever comes to mind. This eventually could
help you find the idea(s) you were looking for
or bring your attention to a practical, suitable
solution to a problem you have. Whether the
brainstormed ideas are applicable or not, it is
important to get them out of your head,
because you never know which idea could be
beneficial and useful. This could help save time
because without brainstorming, it could take
longer to think of something.

3. Focus On The
Important Tasks

Focusing on the important tasks and thus
setting practical goals that would move you
this extra mile towards your goal is important
because it saves you time. Instead of thinking
of unimportant activities and filling up your to-
do list all the way to the top, save some time
and set timely goals that can be achieved in
the assigned time.

In conclusion, time is very important to each
and every one of us and thus we need to make
use of it appropriately. Make as much use of
your time, because once it is gone it will not
return. You can never redeem time and time
could be the difference between success and
failure .
Above are just a few tricks for getting things
done in less time. Do you have any to add?

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9 Clever Ways To Say “No” That Won’t Hurt

Saying no can be hard and embarrassing. Often
easier to say yes, this response is often
avoided or you find yourself in a situation you
do not want to be in. It is often also seen as a
harsh response that can make some people feel
isolated and rejected. Often people say yes
even when they are under a lot of stress and
often our “yes” ends up not playing out to the
disappointment of others.
Instead of creating strain and tension in
relationships, try these 9 clever ways to say
no. Below are ways to say “no” without
seeming cruel and upsetting. Whether to a
boss or loved one, overcome the fear of saying
no and be honest and truthful.
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1. Setting Your
Boundaries “No”

By setting up your personal boundaries you can
effectively express to someone why you are
declining something. Perhaps start with a
response such as “I can tell you what I can
do…” This is an indication that you will only go
so far. This response is also compromising,
meaning that you are willing to cooperate with
someone but only to a certain extent. “I can
definitely go hiking with you but I do not think I
can jog up the mountain.”

2. The Explanation
“No”

This “no” response is much more common in
people who do reject to do something or want
to get a point across to someone who is doing
something they do not agree with. By
explaining, you make it clear and
understandable why an action warrants a “no.”
This response is also great for children as it
also teaches them why not to do something.
“You shouldn’t pull the cat’s tail because he
may not like that and scratch you.”

3. The Honest “No”

Being honest not only feels good it gets you
where you want and need to be. An honest
response is a grateful response in any situation
for both the speaker and the listener. It is
definitely better than ignoring or forgetting
something. The more honest you are, the
easier it becomes to confidently stay honest.
Others also tend to react well to honesty.

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For instance, if someone continues to ask you
out on a date but you do not desire to go, an
honest “no I’m sorry but thank you I am
flattered” can certainly get a point across. By
making positive remarks along with your
honest “no” you keep the situation from getting
too awkward.

4. The Creating
Laughter Humorous
“No”

The funniest way to say no is by throwing a
little humor into your response. Need an
example? Perhaps a friend asks you to go to
the park with them but you honestly just do
not feel like it. “I would go to the park with you
but the last time I went I was thrown out for
not sharing the slide at the playground.”
Hopefully they will see the joke in this and get
the message.
The humorous no means making your response
clear yet adding a brief story or something to
divert the heavy feelings that may come with
the negative response. It also lets the other
person know that you have no hard feelings
against them, rather you just prefer to avoid
something which they should understand.

5. The Next Time
Sounds Better “No”

Also a popularly way of saying no, “maybe next
time” is a good way to get out of a situation
that you may not want to be in at the moment.
Although this response can free you from a
present obligation, if you do not intend to do it
next time think of another way of saying no
lightly. An example includes “That sounds
great, but let me know if it happens again
another time and maybe I can get involved
then.” This is definitely a more comfortable
way of saying no especially if you cannot do
something at the moment that someone wants
you to do it.

6. The I Am Already
Busy “No”

You cannot help it if you are already busy with
something. It is best not to agree to do too
much that you cannot handle. Example
responses include “Sorry but I have to finish up
some things first. I do not think I will have the
time” work well. Remember to sound sure and
add a little firmness in your response or else
people will not take you seriously and keep
asking. Explain why something is important
and offer to do something on another day.

7. The Negotiators
“No”

This clever response is a great way to say no
without actually saying no. Have you ever
negotiated something before? You can
negotiate and bargain just about everything.
This tactic works well with adults and children
but is probably not a good response with your
boss!
For instance, maybe your partner wants to
watch an action flick but you would rather
watch a comedy. Responses such as “Okay,
let’s make a deal. I will watch the action flick
with you next time if you watch this comedy
with me first. Comedies have a little action in
them too and you can enjoy a good laugh with
me.” Not only do you get the point across, you
also reason with the other person, a smart and
witty way of getting out of something you
don’t want to do and maybe getting something
you do want.

8. The Uninterested
“No”

This response can be a tough one to express
without seeming too unconcerned with
someone else’s pursuits. You don’t want to
hurt the other person’s feelings by sounding
uninterested but you can definitely pass on
something that you just cannot see yourself
really enjoying. An example can be “I wish I
knew more about art, but unfortunately I have
just never really gotten into visiting art
museums.”
This lets the other person know that you have
other interests and therefore you might not be
the person they should ask to accompany them
somewhere that would not be enjoyable for you
both. Not being able to enjoy something is
truly time consuming and perhaps not a good
way to make a connection with someone you
care for. How to get around this with children?
That is another story all together!

9. The Pleasant and
Complimenting “No”

“That is quite a delicious looking cake and
absolutely beautiful. Great job on baking it. I
would have a slice but unfortunately I am on a
diet!” This is a pleasant way of saying “thanks
but no thanks” and compliments the other
person while also maintaining peace. This
clever response is perfect during any situation
and keeps everything lighthearted and pleasant
between everyone.
Although saying no can be hard it does not
have to be. These clever ways of saying no,
are great ways for creating no hard feelings
and keeps the peace. Do not let negative
responses get to you too much. Turning
anyone down can create a bit of resentment
but let it go and keep on going .
You can only do so much to keep others happy
and only so much to keep yourself feeling
good. Whether speaking to a child, friend, or at
the work place, finding clever ways to say no
alters the energy in any given moment in a
positive way.
Do you have a clever way of saying no that
has worked well for you? Tell us in the
comments below.

12 Things Really Wealthy People Did to Get Ahead

Want to get ahead financially and in your
career? Follow in the footsteps of giants.

Everyone wants to achieve wealth and financial
freedom, but very few actually go on to rack up
the seven-figure bank accounts they dream
about. In fact, it's commonly suggested that
Americans don't identify as poor; instead, they
see themselves as temporarily embarrassed
millionaires.
So what gives? How can it be that so many
people list "being wealthy" as a goal, when
American consumers owe more than $11.85
trillion in household debt (up 1.7 percent from
last year)?
It turns out, becoming wealthy may be less
about your inherent intelligence (or, for that
matter, about your inheritance), and more
about the habits you practice and the mindset
you maintain. Want to know how the wealthy
got ahead? Check out the following 12 traits of
the super rich:

1. Play the money game to win.

So many people dream of having enough
money to "become financially
comfortable." Unfortunately, this is too vague
to work in most cases. Wealthy people have a
specific endgame in mind -- to become rich
and stay rich. They take on projects and
tangible ventures that result in real-life wealth.
You have to think like a rich person to become
one.

2. Always know their net worth.

At any given time, a person with substantial
amounts of money can tell you exactly how
much they have. Most of us know how much
is in the bank, give or take a few dollars. The
super rich, however, know the ins and outs of
every part of their wealth; and if there is
something they aren't sure of, one phone call
separates them from an immediate answer.
The real difference here isn't the knowledge
itself -- it's the amount of time the super rich
spend working with their money. Financial
speaker Brian Tracy argues this distinction,
claiming, "The average adult spends two to
three hours each month studying and thinking
about their money, usually at bill-paying time.
The average self-made millionaire, by contrast,
spends 20 to 30 hours per month thinking
about, studying, and planning his finances."

3. Broaden the bookshelf instead
buying a bigger television.

According to Thomas Corley, 78 percent of poor
people veg out on reality TV, while only 6
percent of rich people spend their time on this
type of programming. What do they do
instead? Read books. Whether they're
increasing their financial knowledge or studying
another subject that'll increase their earning
power, wealthy people know that education is
the key to a successful financial future.

4. Hang out with people they want to
become.

As the saying goes, you become the average of
the five people you associate with most often.
Wealthy people don't hang around people who
make poor financial choices. It's not because
they look down on others of less net worth,
rather that they realize they will become more
like the people they spend time around, so they
choose their friends and acquaintances wisely.

5. Focus on the big picture.

Good things will happen and bad things will
happen, and you won't know when either is
coming. But wealthy people take advantage of
this fact. They celebrate the amazing
opportunities life has to offer, yet they waste
little time being upset about things they can't
change. Rather, those with substantial wealth
choose to set their gaze on the long run and
work toward creating an enjoyable future for
themselves.

6. Face their problems.

Many people run from their problems,
especially financial ones . They bury their heads
in the sand, hoping issues such as bad debt or
an underwater mortgage will disappear.
Wealthy people face their problems head on.
While it may sting in the short run, rich people
recognize that your overall loss of money and
time can be diminished if you face up to the
problem sooner.

7. Constantly develop new skills and
techniques.

Last year's methods and tricks are outdated.
The only thing that remains the same year
after year is this: everything changes, and it
changes quickly. Those in the bracket of high
net worth educate themselves and learn the
newest techniques and breakthroughs. This
allows them to build their wealth even further
by generating a sustainable competitive edge.

8. Step outside their comfort zone.

You can only go so far and make so much
money within a certain arena. Every situation
has a ceiling -- and it's usually padded with a
comfort zone. In order to build their fortune,
wealthy people know they'll have to expand
their horizons and step beyond what they've
known thus far. But they don't just think about
it -- they do it, taking the uncomfortable steps
and entering a world of new opportunities.

9. Say "no" when it's appropriate.

Not every deal is a good deal. Those who are
serious about their money, even when the
stakes are high, have the confidence to walk
away from poor investments -- and will walk
away alone if no one agrees with them.

10. Set goals and visualize.

Goals that are never set are rarely achieved.
Rich people document their goals and follow
through by tracking their progress. They know
exactly what they want to achieve and what
they must do to get there.

11. Network, network, network.

It's no secret that most great deals come from
those you know. Rich people take advantage of
this and network like crazy. It has been said
many times -- and I completely agree -- if you
want to become rich, never each lunch alone.

12. Take risks, but never gamble.

that have the potential to pay huge dividends
-- but not before spending a lot of time
researching and looking into the deal. Rich
people are all about investing, but only if the
risk and potential return validates it.
Do you share any of these traits with the rich?
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By Sujan Patel

13 Things You’ve Been Doing All Wrong

Do you feel like there’s something you’ve been
doing all wrong and don’t know what to
change or do about it? Sometimes, we’re under
the impression that we’re doing things right
even though we aren’t. Do you think you need
an alert to know what you’re doing wrong?
Here are the warning signs you’ve been waiting
for, the wake-up call you need.

The first step is detecting and identifying the
problem. Using this list, sit down and think of
what you’ve been doing wrong and what you
can do to improve the issue. Be aware that
resolving these points requires determination
and focus.

Next, go ahead and lay out a plan to solve the
issue so that the problem doesn’t occur again.
If you think about it, knowing that you’ve been
doing something wrong can be a blessing
sometimes.

Below are some of the things you’ve been
doing wrong all the time:

1. Communication

Communication, as you know, is really
essential and valuable in our communities.
Without communication, life would not be as
you know it today: the technology, civilization,
and advancement.
Communication has a lot of rules that we
should abide by. On one side of a conversation,
we should have a clear speaker that expresses
his ideas and thoughts effectively. On the other
hand, we need a great listener that doesn’t
interrupt a lot and listens closely and carefully.
Unfortunately, we don’t obey these rules
closely a lot of the times, creating arguments
and fights that could be avoided. It is as
simple as having each party do his part and
we will have better communications and less of
the arguing and disagreement.

2. Scheduling

Let’s ask ourselves a question and answer
honestly: Do we have our daily tasks and
activities scheduled, or do we just go with the
flow and do as much as we can each day?
Maybe on some days we have a good schedule,
and some other days we just let time pass by.
Scheduling is very important, as it allows us to
be more organized and accomplish things in a
faster, more effective manner to bring about
pleasing outcomes.
Start taking control of your life and prioritize
the various activities you have going in your
life. Believe it or not, this could be a struggle
for some people. But be determined to get
things done.
Some people are able to schedule their days,
but do it incorrectly, maybe not putting the
most important things first or misjudging what
the most important things are.

3. Waking Up

Have you ever hit the snooze button on an
alarm clock before you wake up completely and
get out of bed? I am pretty sure all of us have
tried it at least once recently. We are usually
under the impression that if we hit the snooze
button, we can sleep for an extra 10 or 15
minutes before going to work or school.
However, sleep experts have said that snoozing
provides low quality, broken sleep and causes
your body to start a new sleeping cycle that
you cannot complete.
So, if you thought that you would be getting
some more sleep and more energy to power
through your day, you could be wrong. In fact,
this could actually cause you to feel even more
lazy and sleepier later on. Try to be smart and
have the will to cut the habit. Do your best to
get up as soon as your first alarm goes off.
This might help you feel more awake
throughout the morning.

4. Breakfast

Are you a person that wakes up extra early in
the morning to make sure you get your
breakfast? You might have heard this a
thousand times or not heard it at all, but
breakfast is the most important meal of your
day. We commonly skip breakfast without
realizing it or fill ourselves up with a bad
breakfast. Doing this could lead you to have
low energy, headaches, or hunger later in the
day because you did not fuel your body with
correct nutrition early in the morning. Choose
your breakfast wisely and fill up with good
nutrition that will boost your energy and mood
throughout the day.

5. Morning Rush

Are you the type of individual that always finds
yourself rushing out the door every morning
because you have a lot to do and don’t have
time? Are your mornings hectic and busy even
before the day starts? One solution to reducing
morning stress is to take extra time every
night to prepare your lunch, clothing, or other
items that you know you’ll need. Or, wake up
earlier every morning to make sure you don’t
have to rush.

6. Not Making Use Of
Essential Time

What is one of the first things we do when we
wake up or arrive at work? Instead of making
good use of the morning, when we are
sharpest and alert and where our concentration
tends to be at its peak, we often spend this
precious time doing the least important tasks
of the day. We might even get distracted
with work chats, responding to unimportant
emails, and checking our social media outlets.
Why don’t we save these activities for when we
need a break or when our energy is on the low
side of the day? Start taking advantage of the
morning to finish some of the more important,
alert-requiring, and energy-demanding tasks.

7. Rewarding Yourself

Doing the wrong things in life can result in
unpleasant outcomes that tend to serve as a
lesson or a wake-up call. Similarly, we should
reward ourselves when it comes to doing the
right things to motivate ourselves and prepare
for success each day.
It can be tough to get out of bed in the
mornings, and this is lack of motivation.

Therefore, it is vital that we start off the day
with something we love to do in order to
improve and boost our mood. Starting your
day on a good note can happen as a result of a
20 minute stretching period, watching a few
minutes of your favorite morning show,
enjoying a delicious coffee, or listening to your
favorite music.

8. Not Stretching

Oh, stretching! Stretching does not have to be
something that you do just before exercising
and training. It is vital to do on a regular basis
every morning. No matter how many times we
bring it up, we cannot emphasize enough how
important this is.

There are many reasons why morning
stretching is praised, including improving
posture, reducing pain, helping to increase
blood circulation and energy, and (most
importantly) to prevent injury. As we know,
prevention is better than curing, so stretching
should be on the top of our to-do list every
day. It doesn’t take that much time at all!

9. Procrastination

Ever tried this act known as “procrastination”?
That means leaving an assignment, task, or
activity until the last moment. It could also
be postponing or delaying something. In this
busy world, we’ve all done it: we agree that we
will execute a certain task today, but end up
completing it just before the deadline.
To prevent procrastinating, perform a task as
soon as you are able to, and as far ahead as
possible. For example, let’s say you’re given a
math assignment due next week, and you’re
free today in the evening. Knowing that you
already learned the concept and understand it,
go ahead and start it (or even finish it) that
evening. It will reduce worry.

10. Not Hydrating

This is something we do not really take care of
or think about, but is surely something
important and vital to our health and
wellbeing. We have all heard about the fact
that drinking a lot of water is part of feeling
and looking well and healthy. Critical times to
hydrate include mornings, since your body is
fasting during the night and requires water as
well as other nutrients to start its metabolism.

Drinking water after waking up also boosts
digestion and that is why you might feel like
water clears your system.

11. Planning

Planning is related to scheduling and
organizing your day, yet is different than
scheduling. Scheduling is done for tasks that
have already been planned. So planning
precedes scheduling.
Planning is important, because without a plan
everything could easily fall apart.

Similarly, a
good plan of attack in the mornings could help
you gain control of your day and thus
contribute to getting more tasks done. All you
need is a few minutes the night before, or early
in the morning, to organize your day and have
goals set clearly.

12. Delaying Exercise

Exercise is such an important part of our lives
that we should always incorporate it, whether
we are home, outside, or even on a vacation
trip. One common misconception people have
is that to exercise, you need to go to a gym.

No you don’t, you can just run a few laps
around the house or do push-ups and sit-ups
inside the house.
If you find yourself delaying or postponing
exercise because you feel exhausted at the end
of the day, shift your exercise period to the
morning and start off your mornings fresh.

Exercising as long as 20 minutes is enough
every morning, and doing it every morning
guarantees that your exercise will get done
every day.

13. Allowing
Negativity To Get To
You

Negativity is something that, if believed and
implemented, could be disastrous in your daily
life. Sometimes negativity is disguised as the
only solution to a problem, where we think
there is absolutely no other way we can resolve
the issue. Building negativity over time not
only affects you, but also affects loved ones
and others around you.
Being surrounded by negative people could be
the worst. Do not surround yourself with
negative people that will make you unhappy
and bring you down, draining all the positivity
you possess. Ultimately it is up to you to allow
someone to get to you and cause you distress.
Sometimes it’s hard, but just try to be calm
and don’t let them do it.
There are numerous things we do wrong
and we don’t even notice it.

Sometimes we
even ignore red flags and signs that we are
headed for a fall. This is why we need to start
being proactive and unafraid to opening our
“case file” and “shred” the negativity that we
don’t want. Discarding a “corrupted file” could
end up benefiting us and allowing us to make a
U-turn for the better. Look for your errors and
correct them.

Now it’s your turn. What else have you been
doing wrong and how’d you fix it?

Woman with world's biggest breasts needs love

Annie Hawkins-Turner, is world famous for
having the biggest breasts. Now she wants to
fall in love again.

If you are a man that loves them huge and large,
then the world famous Annie Hawkins-Turner ,
aka Norma Stitz , the woman who has been
recognised by the Guinness Book of World
Records as the woman with the biggest boobs
» needs love.
Turner, a website entrepreneur and fetish model
whose stage name is a word-play on the phrase
'enormous tits', » has a breast whose size is
said to be 102ZZZ with each of them weighing
around 56 pounds (25 kg), according to the UK
magazine show, 'This Morning'.
Turner who is a mother of two children, was
married for 13 years to her late husband Alan, a
retired Air Force officer who died in 2003, and
now, she says she is ready to mingle again, only
if she finds the right man.
She holds a Bachelor's Degree in Social Work
from Jackson State University and a Master of
Science Degree in Marketing Management from
Strayer University which she obtained this year.
The Guinness Book of World Records has
certified her the possessor of the world's largest
natural breasts.
Turner currently wears a US size 52I bra, the
largest made, but by American bra estimation,
these measurements would put her in a 48V bra,
which is not manufactured.
The record maker says of her mammoth
mammary:
"I just started growing, and kept right on. I
started wearing a bra when I was in third grade,
and it was a regular grown-up woman's bra. I
don't remember ever wearing a training bra."
On receiving the Guinness World Record Award,
Turner said:
"It made me feel like a million bucks. It's such
an honour. This will go down in history. It's
something I will always cherish."
So who is man enough to get on?