Maintaining a serious relationship can be tasking
. A successful long term relationship is a joint
effort between two committed people.
If you have something 'real' and 'special' with
someone you see a future with, here are 7 things
to do which will make you more committed.
1. Look for the right partner:
Keep your eyes
open for 'wife and husband materials'. If you
spot a potential player, there's no need dating
them thinking they'll change. Find someone who
compliments you.
2. Be matured:
Partying and drinking like a
teenager is a no-no. Be more responsible, get a
job and earn a good living. This would make you
more independent and ready to handle what
comes your way.
3. Be with someone who wants a serious
relationship as you do:
This crosses out the
players and emotionally unavailable people. If
you are ready to commit, find someone who's on
the same page with you.
4. Make more effort:
Loving someone involves
not running away after two fights. We all know
it's not easy, but if this is worth fighting for,
then don't let anything stop you.
5. Have no expectations:
Don't set the bar too
high or too low. Don't expect too much so you
don't end up disappointed.
6. Make room in your
tight schedule:
Set aside
enough time to spend with your partner. If you
are very busy during the weekdays, try to spend
time with them on weekends. The more you are
together, the stronger your relationship becomes.
7. Your future plans should align with theirs:
Some things matter more when you are in a
serious relationships. You guys should have a
chat before things get too serious, this will help
you check if your plans matches with theirs.
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